A week in, VCU feels like the perfect move for columnist

Date published: 8/28/2008

MY FIRST WEEK of college has come and gone, and as I adjust to the changes of being on my own, I also face the realization that college may very well be the best time of my life. As nervous as I was, it seems ridiculous now that I was dreading the urban atmosphere and even the academic intensity of VCU.

I understand, of course, that college will be difficult. But I am learning in ways that are easier and far more fulfilling than high school classes were. I am no longer afraid of being mugged as I walk down the street. (If you walk in groups, chances are slim to none that something will happen.) And I am finding it invigorating that I am learning on my own terms--my teachers are demanding that I think for myself, question the subjects they are presenting and make my classes a part of my daily life. This is no longer about memorizing facts and taking pointless tests.

I feel like, for the first time--besides my stint in Governor's School last summer--I am really learning things. It's beginning to seem that this place is just the right place for me to grow into the person I'm becoming. I can't understand why, but I've always been more attached to places than anything else, and just like the way my grandmother's tree, my journalism room back at Courtland and my warm couch at home all seem to complement me in ways I can't explain, VCU is beginning to do just the same. This feels like it is supposed to be this way.

I have a little family away from my family now. To my surprise, I was in the same exact situation as everyone else. No one else knew each other--all were apprehensive, and it was very easy to be vulnerable and introduce myself to dozens of people I would otherwise never have talked to. One of the greatest skills I've learned so far is how to be vulnerable enough to shake a random person's hand and introduce myself. The connections I make now can help form my college experience, or even relationships lasting longer than that. Starting over almost completely is so invigorating and exciting. I can't wait until I am totally comfortable with this place.

Date published: 8/28/2008